
Melissa, aged 12
Step-families
It may be difficult to think about your parents with a new partner. It's normal to feel a bit uncomfortable about meeting the new partner, and it's okay to take time to adjust. It's up to you how you feel about the new person. You can be friends with them without being disloyal to your mum or dad. The new partner cannot replace your mother or father.
If one or both of your parents meet someone else, you might have a step brother or sister. You may have to spend some time with them or sometimes live in the same house. As with step-parents, it may take time to adjust. Remember they might be feeling some of the same things you are. In time, you might become friends. If you are an only child, this could be a chance to experience having a brother or sister for the first time.